Amp It Up: The Rut

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Next in her series Ducky tackles a common problem with long-term relationships: falling into the same old habits sexually. She explains the basic human psychology behind why we slip into a routine with our sexuality, even if that’s “tonight we’re going to do it on the chandelier again“. A rut is a rut, and if you’re looking to change things up a bit Ducky has some solid suggestions you can try out right away.

Also in Amp it Up

  1. Amp It Up: the EVI
  2. Amp It Up: The Rut
  3. Amp It Up: Anatomical Differences
  4. Amp It Up: Sex Drive
  5. Amp It Up: Monthly Cycles
  6. Amp It Up: Oxytocin
  7. Amp It Up: Penetration is NOT the Definition of Sex
  8. Amp It Up: Asking for What You Want
  9. Amp It Up: Compliments
  10. Amp It Up: Erogenous Zones
  11. Amp It Up: Spontaneity & Anticipation
  12. Amp It Up: Orgasm From Penetration Alone

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  1. Actually, when Ducky talks about sex statistics or evolutionary biology, it’s not very informative. You can tell that she does not have any in-depth knowledge, so she is merely casually chatting about how she feels or thinks things are than actually educating.
    Also, there are a lot of repetitions when you listen to all her “amp it up” parts. You will here the same formulations again, which diminishes the useful content even more.

    The only actual tip she offers is just: Look around the room and find new ideas where to have sex. “And play, just play. That’s a good way to get out of the rut.” This is not really any kind of insight, sorry!

    • Ducky has been a well respected sex educator for a long time, but that’s one of the benefits of having so many different kinds of educators on here…if you one doesn’t match up with your beliefs or what you need, there’s 150 others to check out!

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