Aug 292014
The Feminist Connection within Power Exchange

Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear [...]

Aug 282014
Race Play: Getting Started

Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a [...]

Aug 252014
Pervertibles: Safer Sex Supplies

Part of working with pervertibles is making them safe for sexual play. Iris goes over several ways to do this with condoms (male and female), gloves, and other supplies. She even throws in some neat ways to use safer sex supplies for other fun and kinky purposes.

Aug 232014
Electrical Play: TENS Unit, Part 1

With the safety aspects covered, Dov starts using the equipment in this clip. He applies electrically conductive pads to Miss Ali’s body and demonstrates several different pulse patterns and intensities. Ali gives feedback as to how it all feels, and they show how changing the position of the pads can intensify and change the outcome.

Aug 222014
Sexy Bootblacking: Basic Cleaning

Now that she’s covered the equipment, Poetic goes into how to start your leather care scene. She describes how you can combine connection and sexual play with the actual techniques of bootblacking. She demonstrates the first part of this with a basic cleaning of chaps with saddle soap.

Aug 212014
Alternate Florentine Flogging Style

Now that he’s shown you the flashy regular florentine, Sir Nik Satanas changes to a more practical frame of mind. With some subtle alterations this kind of technique can set up a “metronome” effect on shoulders and ass. With the aid of his beautiful partner as well as some slow-motion, Sir Nik walks you through [...]

Aug 202014
Rope Handling Techniques, Part 3

In this clip Gray shows how to use a larkshead to extend your rope and also explains the classic rope principle known as “Use the Big Hole”. He also talks about maintaining rope tension while pulling the rope for better control.

Aug 162014
Play Piercing: Squirming

The various sensations that can happen under the needles can lead to some very wiggly and squirming bottoms. Shay and Stefanos, along with Jade’s willing body, show how to both deal with this and also inspire it when it’s wanted.

Aug 152014
Race Play: Why the Fuck?

There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it [...]

Aug 142014
Pervertibles & De-Pervertibles

Iris Enchanted starts a series on how you can pervert everyday household items with this introductory clip. She discusses the idea of “pervertibles” and “de-pervertibles” and gives several examples such as rubber bands, coconut oil, and even interesting ideas for female condoms!

Aug 132014
Intermediate Face Slapping

In his second face-slapping video, Roughinamorato goes into two more techniques. One uses both hands in a very stingy sensation, shown both in real-time and slow motion. He then covers backhanding, talking about safety issues and also demonstrating several times.

Aug 102014
Standing Positions

Mistress Melissa’s piggy can’t be on her knees all the time, so there are a few standing positions for high-protocol D/s scenes. This clip covers the first two, with Mistress Melissa’s usual attention to the details of body mechanics, presentation, and even some extra examples of verbal protocols that can go along with the standing [...]

Aug 082014
Creating Protocols that Work for You

Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that [...]





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