Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear [...]
Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a [...]
Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the classic kink, OTK spanking, in this clip. Annie gives some feedback on why her position is just right for her arousal, while Scotty illustrates the ways that variations in tempo and intensity can add a lot to the experience. They also touch on the “sweet spot” – literally [...]
With the safety aspects covered, Dov starts using the equipment in this clip. He applies electrically conductive pads to Miss Ali’s body and demonstrates several different pulse patterns and intensities. Ali gives feedback as to how it all feels, and they show how changing the position of the pads can intensify and change the outcome.
Now that he’s shown you the flashy regular florentine, Sir Nik Satanas changes to a more practical frame of mind. With some subtle alterations this kind of technique can set up a “metronome” effect on shoulders and ass. With the aid of his beautiful partner as well as some slow-motion, Sir Nik walks you through [...]
There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it [...]
Mistress Melissa’s piggy can’t be on her knees all the time, so there are a few standing positions for high-protocol D/s scenes. This clip covers the first two, with Mistress Melissa’s usual attention to the details of body mechanics, presentation, and even some extra examples of verbal protocols that can go along with the standing [...]
Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that [...]