Why would you go to the trouble of being kinky at all if it wasn’t “hawt”? Graydancer explains that this isn’t necessarily always sexual, but should always be gratifying in some way. He also explains the importance of only creating protocols you are prepared to enforce (for Dom and sub) by telling about a personal experience.

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Creative Protocols for D/s Relationships

1. Creative Protocols for D/s: Introduction
2. Creative Protocols for D/s: Why?
3. Creative Protocols for D/s: The Four Qualities
4. Creative Protocols for D/s: Connection
5. Creative Protocols for D/s: Hierarchy
6. Creative Protocols for D/s: the “HAWT”
7. Creative Protocols for D/s: Quality of Life
8. Creative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 1
9. Creative Protocols for D/s: Protocol Generation Machine Part 2
10. Creative Protocols for D/s: When a Protocol is Wrong for You
11. Creative Protocols for D/s: Environment of Win