It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
What’s the best way to implement a new ritual or task into a D/s relationship? Sinclair Sexsmith breaks it down for you in this clip. The process involves a trial period, a check-in, and then more evaluation to make sure that the new protocol is nurturing the power exchange dynamic and also can be sustained. […]
In the final sexy boot blacking clip Poetic shows how she enjoys “worshiping” the leather with her hands, her mouth, and body. She also shows how this can become a part of a larger ritual of dominance and submission if that’s how your dynamic works. This text is available for purchase but you need to […]
Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]
Sinclair Sexsmith talks about the “Submissive Playground”, a website and course that can give people a chance to more deeply explore their submissive sides. Sinclair is the “resident dominant” and can help guide you through the course, or you can do it with your own partner. The course runs in various cycles, and is available […]
Mistress Simone takes the time to talk about some of the assumptions and mistaken concepts about dominant women. She explains that this is not about past trauma, greed, or hate for her, but rather out of a desire for connection with her partners. It’s all about consent and pleasure for Miss Simone, and this is […]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about […]
In this clip Sinclair Sexsmith heads into the pragmatic areas of D/s protocol such as doing dishes, laundry, or even the way coffee is served. Sinclair gives solid suggestions as well as the reasoning behind them so that you can come up with your own hot & sexy D/s protocol. This text is available for […]
In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness […]
Poetic Desires kicks off a series on “Sexy Bootblacking” with this clip. She talks about why she enjoys bootblacking, different motivations for this kind of leather care, and some of the legends of where this kind of play originated. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.
Stefanos and Shay share in this clip how they handle their power exchange relationship in various environments. This includes both “toning it down” in public and also ramping it up in private, with subtle cues for each other to communicate the desire for a stronger sense of protocol wherever they are.
Mistress Melissa begins her series on protocol by going over the various levels and types of protocol that you might want in your relationship. She describes different situations where you might want to enforce certain behaviors and others where you wouldn’t, and encourages you to watch all the videos to pick and choose what you’d […]
In the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about how to adapt the dominant body mechanics with the voluptuous Alex. He begins […]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay […]