Harold Henry reveals the secret of getting laid in this clip…and it turns out not to be very complicated. Clear and honest communication, he says, are key and being the kind of pushy predator that the mainstream media promotes won’t get you anywhere. He stresses several other qualities that can be developed and increase the [...]
Evöe Thorne and Harold Henry get into the deeper meaning of consent, especially when negotiating with a new partner. Aside from being essential, it can be a tricky thing to manage without alienating the other person. They show several techniques such as the “redirect” to illustrate how consent can be created and enjoyed as part [...]
In this clip Topologist takes you on a tour “behind the scenes” of all his suspension videos here on Kink Academy. He explains his choices for all his equipment, from the frame itself to the small tools like the “marlin spike” that you never even noticed. He also makes recommendations for how to vary things [...]
Unlike most vacations, traveling to a kink event can present some challenges unique to BDSM enthusiasts. You may be very nervous about the idea of TSA agents pawing through your things, and wonder if the wrong dildo in your carry-on might end up getting you put on a no-fly list. There is both good and [...]
Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses [...]
Want to not only keep your toys organized for your play but also look stylish? Damon Dark has created several lines of “Dungeon Bags” with a place for everything you need for your kinky play. He shows off several in this clip, including the “Elite” and the “Marquis”, and invites you to customize your own [...]
Since everyone’s aftercare needs are different and both tops and bottoms need aftercare, it follows that they may not always be able to provide aftercare for each other. Lucky Albatross presents a solution in this clip: using a different person who is better equipped and can be trusted to give the aftercare that is needed [...]
Being healthy at kink conventions means more than just safe, sane, and consensual. The intimate contact can make you more vulnerable to colds and flu-like illnesses, and Lee has some specific ideas for maintaining your health at a con. He and Mollena also talk about “con-drop”, the depression that can hit after a particularly good [...]
Panther ProwLs explains effective ways to clean and handle your canes during this three-minute video. He describes cleaning methods – and notes explicitly how to clean based on the type of cane (natural or synthetic material). Panther also offers a terrific tip when it comes to breaking your bottom’s skin with a natural fiber cane.
Shay (with some enthusiastic manhandling help from Stefanos) explains what goes on with your body when your happy spanking, roughhousing, or just enthusiastic sex leads to contusions that mark the skin. She also shares the magic of RICE for curing what ails you, and encourages you to be careful but not stop the fun!