Apr 022014
Rope Negotiation: Knowing What You Need, Part 2

JP and Gray finish up their series on Rope Negotiation with some talk about aftercare, specifically for the top. They discuss the ways aftercare can appear to various people, and how to plan a scene so that you can come out of it energized rather than drained.

Mar 072014
Rope Negotiation: Knowing What You Need, Part 1

Graydancer and J.P. Robichaud move into the final segments of their rope negotiation series by talking about what the top needs. It’s rare that a rigger is asked “What do you want to get out of a scene?” but that is just as important as the bottom’s desires. They talk about ways to figure out […]

Dec 092013
Under Consideration: Closing the Deal

Once you’ve taken everything under consideration into consideration, how to you go about making it happen and “closing the deal” with your chosen dominant? Mollena Williams helps you examine the difference between giving up everything and gaining everything you want, sometimes even when they’re happening at the same time! Consent, negotiation, self-identity, and awareness are all […]

Dec 022013
Under Consideration: Vetting Your Dominant

It’s not unheard of to check on the references of a dominant under consideration – in fact, Mollena argues, it’s a pretty good idea. She talks about what kinds of questions to ask, both of the dominant and of the people that they recommend. Failing that, there’s always the old fashioned idea of “dating” – […]

Nov 282013
Assertive Negotiation Tips for Submissives

Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear […]

Aug 222013
Diplomacy in D/s: It's for Everyone

Mollena Williams, International Ms Leather 2010, begins a series to help power exchange players communicate more effectively. She points out that regardless of your relationship dynamic, the start of communication needs to come from respect. She outlines how that looks from various perspectives to lay a foundation for future talks on the how of D/s diplomacy. […]

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Jul 202013
Healthy or Unhealthy? Attitudes & Behaviors

Dr. Richard Sprott from CARAS begins a reflection on healthy and unhealthy sexual attitudes and behaviors during this four-minute video. He first shares various workable definitions of psychological well-being and then uses them to help start the examination of sexual attitudes and behaviors. Dr. Sprott shares more in his next video on sexual health.

Apr 102013
The Reluctant Daddy: Summary

Nayland summarizes his series on age play from the big’s perspective during this two-minute video. He takes you through the process of age play by reviewing consent, negotiation, roles, activities, scenarios, safety, and aftercare. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Register & Purchase  Purchase Only

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