While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: a helmet. Looking at the route beforehand. Biking with a buddy, especially one who is more experienced. This keeps both the thrill and the biker alive. How does a personally responsible kinkster act? That’s most likely an individual choice, but here are some videos about […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, and Activity Monogamy. Food for thought when thinking about what kind of non-monogamy is right for you!
Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion. Also in Shadow Side of Eros The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 1 The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 2 The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 3 The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4 View the entire series
In part two Shae takes out the genital coverings and begins to use different tools to give different sensations. She uses a cleaver, a wartenburg wheel, and her own fingers to great effect, explaining how it’s the mental game as well as the physical that makes this kind of play so much fun. Also in Sensory Deprivation on a Budget Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Introduction Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Prep for Advanced Mummification Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Mummification Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: From the Other Side, Part 1 Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Finishing the Wrap, […]
Anita Wagner continues her series on sex addiction and compulsion with this part-three, eight-minute video. In this video she provides a straightforward reflection on what it is like to be the partner of a sex addict/compulsive. Anita discusses the many ways that a partner may respond to the difficulties, and she suggests ways that may lead to healing. She also includes helps for recovery for the person with the addiction/compulsive. Anita finishes with an emphasis on what not to do. Also in Shadow Side of Eros The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 1 The Shadow Side of […]